Abusive Leadership
Abusive leadership is so ingrained in religion that it has come to be
the de facto structure and theory of denominational
theologies. Any time that someone assumes authority that is
not theirs abuse is sure to develop. The pattern is
as old as mankind.
If you have read the Bible you undoubtedly noticed that in the Old
Testament, the Jewish Priesthood became corrupt and began to serve
their own desires instead of God and the needs of God’s
people. It’s one of the major sub-themes in the historical
books and a major theme in books of the prophets.
In Jeremiah 5:13-14 you will find Jeremiah, speaking for God about the
religious leaders of his day. He says: “For from
the least of them to the greatest of them, every one is greedy for
gain, and from the prophet even to the priest everyone deals
falsely. And they have healed the brokenness of my people
superficially, saying peace, peace but there is no peace.”
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In the Gospels it is interesting to notice that
Jesus related freely with the prostitutes, drunks, tax collectors,
diseased and demon possessed, but had a real problem with the religious
system and leadership. Speaking of the religious leaders Jesus
says in Matthew 23:4-7: “They tie up burdens that are heavy and
unbearable and lay them on people's shoulders, but they refuse to lift
a finger to remove them. They do all their actions to be seen by
people. They increase the size of their phylacteries and lengthen the
tassels of their garments. They love to have the places of honor at
feasts, the best seats in the synagogues, to be greeted in the
marketplaces, and to be called 'Rabbi' by people.”
It
was to people distressed and downcast under religious, political and
economic pressures that Jesus said in Matthew 11:28-30:
“Come unto me, all who are weary and heavy-laden, and I will give you
rest. Take my yoke upon you, and learn from me, for I am gentle
and humble at heart; and you shall find rest for your souls. For
my yoke is easy and my load is light.”
Jesus recognized that
the people he spoke those words to are first, weary and second heavily
laden. Performance based religion places an impossible load
upon its victims. Trying to be good enough to please God can not
be accomplished.
As a teenager I visited
the Grand Canyon. I remember standing at the trail head watching
a donkey train laboring up the trail. From a distance it looked
like a string of piles of bags and boxes wobbling their way up the
trail. Only when they got closer could I see the donkey’s little
heads and little spindly legs poking out of the mounds of
baggage. Now I think they may have been religious donkeys
because when thy passed by me, their tongues were hanging out and they
were weary and heavy-laden. The driver was giving them no rest.
John
the Baptist wasn’t bashful when in Matthew the third chapter he called
the religious leaders a generation of vipers. Jesus used a
similar description in Matthew 12 when he called them a brood of
vipers. He said: “O generation of vipers, how can ye, being evil,
speak good things?”
Having grown up in the desert of New
Mexico, I can see why Jesus would use this wording to describe
religious leaders: In the heat of the day snakes move into shady
places to survive the high heat. So do weary hot
travelers. When the hot traveler settles into a shady place to
rest the snake strikes and poisons them. It’s a slow and painful
death. That is the picture: Burdened and hurting people
come into a place that they would expect to find rest. They find
people who appear to be helpful but instead they are poisoned with
performance based religion and loaded up like donkeys coming up the
trail. Jesus was not impressed.
In the epistles, Paul
identifies the abusers as: false brethren, evil workers, the dogs,
Judaizers and the circumcision. The prophets, John the Baptist,
Jesus and Paul were all confronting the same thing: Performance
based religion. It always leads to abuse. Once a
person buys into self righteousness as a way to please God, it becomes
all about performance. Religion becomes a competition over who
can perform better, appear holier and gain the most
attention. When this type of person gains authority over
others the abuse begins.
In the book of Galatians, Paul says
that the effect of performance based religion is bewitchment and mental
confusion. People who have been bewitched by abusive leaders feel
belittled, tired and powerless because they can not live up to other
people’s expectation.
In Acts 20:28, Paul exhorts the
believers in Ephesus to be on guard against the legalistic performance
system. Formulas, systems, man’s doctrines and pride can subtly
lull us into conformity to the world instead of transformation by the
renewing of our minds.
Is your church a shady spot
filled with vipers? Is Sunday morning like a donkey train
laboring up the trail driven by a hard task master? Has religion
bewitched you into the viper pit? Jesus said: come unto me, I
will give you rest.
Real rest, real love, real ….
Neil